Happy Birthday Papi!

Today’s my Dad’s birthday.  He would’ve been 56 years old.  Even though he is not here with me in real life, I feel he is with me in spirits.  He died 14 years ago, at the young age of 42, from complications with diabetes -  Just a week after we came back from our vacation from Florida.  It was a HUGE shocker to the whole family because he looked so healthy.  No one knew he was sick.

He was always very thoughtful, lovable and a very caring person.  Everyone that knew him, loved him.  He was that kind of person.  He was a very hard worker too.  He always made sure my sister and I had everything we needed and more.  He was a Correction Officer in Rikers Island.  He was only 3 years from retiring.  I still can’t believe it has been 14 years.  After all these years, I miss him like crazy.  I hate the fact that my kids missed the opportunity of having a terrific grandfather.  Since he was a great father, I knew he would’ve been a great grandfather too.

So I’m dedicating this post to my dad. Happy Birthday Papi!  We miss you and love you!

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Comments

  1. 1

    I’m so sorry you lost your dad so young. You have written such a beautiful tribute to him. What a wonderful guy! I hope your sons grow up to be like him. :) God bless.

  2. 2
    LadyJava says:

    I lost my father 16years ago and I still miss him like mad so I totally understand what you are feeling..

    But I’m sure he is looking down on me all the time just like yours is :)

    Happy birthday to your father :)

  3. 3
    Isolated says:

    I didn’t know your Papá passed away so young. No wonder you miss him so much you were very young when he passed away. He was a very handsome man, he, he. Sending muchos abrazos your way :-)

  4. 4
    Mami Dearest says:

    Hey Lisa….my thoughts are with you. ((((HUGS MAMI))))

  5. 5
    katelynjane says:

    Oh wow, that would be so hard! It’s so awesome though that you had the chance to spend the week in Florida with him, what a blessing!

    -katelyn

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