While I was writing about my CVS visit, I heard this on the radio:
According to a study done by Oxford University,
1 in 10 couples look thru their significant other’s web browser history on the computer.
and
1 in 5 married couples ADMIT they secretly read their spouse’s emails and text messages.
Confession: I haven’t done this in a LONG time because my relationship with my husband has been pretty good lately but I have done that except one: check text messages. My spouse doesn’t know how to use that feature but if he did, then I would be guilty of all. Yes, I know it’s awful and it’s an invasion of privacy BUT when you are married, there SHOULD NOT be any secrets between the two to begin with anyway.. Sorry, but that is MY opinion. I have ZERO problems with my husband looking thru my emails and web history; none whatsoever.. I have nothing to hide so he can look anytime and anywhere. If he has a problem with me looking thru his emails and web history, then he is giving me a reason to think he is hiding something he doesn’t want me to know. Right?
Well, the reason why I did that is because since we’ve been together for a little over 17 years and we’ve been married for almost 12 years I tend to let my mind wander when it comes to infidelity. You know, boredom, body changes after having 3 kids and other things that happen in all marriages. Infidelity is the worse thing that can happen in a marriage but from what I know so far, there hasn’t been any infidelity; but you never know. I can’t have 100% trust on anyone because that is what I’ve learned ever since I was a kid. Maybe I need some therapy, who knows..LOL
Anyway, have you done this to your spouse or have they done this to you? Please leave your comments. I would love to hear about it..
Remember, these are my opinions. You may or may not agree with them. Also, my husband knows about me snooping and he didn’t like it either. Oh well! LOL
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